Things I am grateful for. . .
26. a boss that is my friend
27. less stress in my day to day life
28. alarm clocks
29. sexy cosplay girls
A guy spoke to me inappropriately at work earlier. He was laying on the flirting really thick, and touching me unwelcomed. I feel stupid that I accidentally mentioned the pig to my boyfriend. The pig was basically telling me, “Yo, if your man don’t make you happy and you want to fuck me, I’m open to it. I fuck other girls all the time.” Like what the fuck in that is supposed to attract me??
He was telling me how he always has a side piece and I was truly disgusted, listening to him tell me about his love life. Sounded sad. I didn’t envy him, or necessarily encourage him. But I see now by not saying “get the fuck out of here” or “don’t speak to me that way any more” I was not being assertive, and now he may or may not have the wrong idea.
It was very vindictive of me, but under other circumstances I would have enjoyed reminding Jacob that I am desirable to other males. He takes advantage of me from time to time. I guess I forget to make him want me sometimes. I don’t always put in the effort I should. And after hearing what I said today, that a guy was flirting with me, Jake got quite upset. I decided after his fit while I was chilling out on my own that I was gonna talk to Latta.
It makes me uncomfortable, but at the same time, it might be better way to handle the situation. I will let my boss know and I keep practicing what I might say. . . .
“I don’t know that I mean this in so much as a professional capacity or more as a favor as my friend, but I needed to talk to you about something. I wanted you to kindly tell Travis that his advances are not appreciated and to cease and desist. Just tell him man-to-man Lacy don’t play that.”
That sounds smart. What professional repercussions will come from my decision? I know I’m not out of line, he was entirely too forward and he made me uncomfortable. I would prefer for him to stay away from me. Latta can kindly relay that without me having to be a cold-ass bitch.
Am I behaving stupidly by reporting it? Am I behaving like a grown woman who can’t tell a man to buzz off? Am I being weak and stupid? I just don’t like to be mean. But I should have told him to step the fuck off. I didn’t act interested, but I didn’t tell him to stop either. I should have, I see that now. What’s weird is he’s even older than my boyfriend, closer to my mom’s age, and I’m weirded out
I’m like jesus he says he’s 40, I’m not interested, and I was clear about the fact that I’m practically married. I want to be married, I am done beating around the bush. I want Jacob and him only, and I want him to see that.
We’ll see what happens tomorrow.
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